For Sarah Elizabeth Williams Gelfand and Scott David Shilson Jr., the NYU masters’ intensive environment and lawful approach to laws in the taxation program – intended for attorneys who specifically wanted to deepen their knowledge in the field of jurisprudence – were not obstacles She was falling in love. “It’s probably not the most romantic place,” said Ms. Gelfand, 31, of the year’s program. “But I realized that I really loved spending time with Scott because he makes the subject a very dry subject.
Despite their heavy workload, the students gave Ms. Gelfand and Mr. Shilsen unusual flexibility when they began dating during the winter of 2017. “We were able to compile school stuff and then take advantage of the city’s lot,” Sh. . Shilsen, 30. He spent much of his free time sampling New York restaurants and bakeries. “I think we were like 50 percent studied, 50 percent food,” he said.
Ms. Gelfand and Mr. Shilson break up marathon study sessions with trips to Absolute Bagels on the Upper West Side, Di Fara’s Pizza in Brooklyn and Sammy’s Roumian Steakhouse on Christie Street in the Lower East Side. One of his ongoing projects that semester was getting the most delicious black and white cookie the city has to offer. “We believe William Greenberg is the best, although we are also partial to Amy’s bread,” Ms. Gelfand said.
After graduating from NYU in 2017, the couple faced geographic segregation for nearly a year and a half, while Ms. Gelfand served as United States Tax Court Judge Juan F. in Washington DC. Served as a law clerk for Vasquez. , He spent the entire weekend together and was introduced back to his home town on Monday morning, first on the train Amtrak, often in tow with his French bulldog, Emma. “Even when we were tired and queasy, I don’t think we ever thought we should give up a week and not see each other,” Ms Gelfand said. “It was not just an option.”
After her clerkship ended, Ms. Gelfand, an associate of the law firm Day Pitney, returned to New York to live in her small East Village apartment with Mr. Shilson and one of her brothers, where they often hosted local friends. “It felt like a classic New York-y situation, where you’re in droves, but it’s making the best, having a great time,” said Mr. Shilson, an associate at the law firm White & Case.
For his proposal, Mr. Shilson gave two members of this tight-knit community, his younger brother and then roommate Nick Shilsen, and Ms. Gelfand’s cousin, Katie Case, without their parents in New York to receive their parents Admitted to. The group, which also included Mr. Shilson’s two other brothers, were waiting for the couple at Mr. Lilsen Place’s restaurant, Loring Place, when Mr. Shilsen asked them to marry him in Washington Square Park at the first lunch site .
The couple were married on January 16, under the umbrella of trees in Bola Street, Boca Grande, before 11 guests. Ms. Case, who became a universal life minister for marriage, committed the crime. He and Nick Shilson led a Jewish-Episcopal ceremony, preceded by a virtual Ketuba signing presided over by Rabbi Greg Marks. After the ceremony at the Gasparilla Inn, 10 family members welcomed.
In true advocate fashion, Ms. Gelfand and Mr. Shilson prepared a list of protocols in which their guests were to follow Keep all safe.